NEW REALITY ACADEMY
The community where freedom becomes a rhythm.
An ongoing discipleship community for the man who's done fighting alone — and ready to build a daily walk that holds.
01 / WHAT THIS IS
Structure. Rhythm. Brotherhood.
New Reality Academy is an ongoing discipleship community for Christian men navigating same-sex attraction who are ready to stop walking alone and build a life of structure, brotherhood, and biblical identity.
Built around Community, Accountability, and Discipline, the Academy gives men a consistent place to receive teaching, walk with brothers, build spiritual rhythm, and stay accountable beyond moments of motivation. When you join, you're guided through a structured foundation — then you continue in ongoing formation through weekly live calls, monthly teachings, practical tools, and private community.
This is not a short-term course. It's a long-term formation environment where men learn to walk in truth, discipline, and freedom together. The foundation is where you start. The community is where you stay.
02 / WHERE YOU START
Your foundation — then the walk continues.
When you join, you begin with a structured foundation. It's not a course you finish and leave — it's the groundwork everything ongoing is built on. After it, monthly formation and daily community keep you in motion for as long as you stay.
IDENTITY
Who you actually are when the noise stops. Before behavior, before struggle, before shame — what Scripture says about the man God called you to be. We start here because nothing else holds without it.
FOUNDATIONS
The hidden roots beneath the patterns. We name the lies, trace them to where they started, and replace them with truth. This is the deep work that makes lasting change possible.
WALKING IT OUT
Daily rhythms, weekly disciplines, and what to do when you're triggered, lonely, or tempted to disengage. The practical theology of freedom — not in theory, in your real life.
MULTIPLICATION
Freedom isn't a destination. It's a calling. This phase prepares you to walk this out long-term, contribute to the brotherhood, and become someone who helps the next man find his way.
Specific content unfolds as you walk through it — the way real discipleship has always worked.
03 / WHAT'S INCLUDED
Everything you need to walk this out.
WEEKLY LIVE CALL
A live group call every week. Worship, teaching, real conversation, and time to bring what you're actually walking through. Same day. Same time. Every week.
THE FOUNDATION TRACK
A structured start through identity, foundations, walking it out, and multiplication. Released in sequence so you build in rhythm, not racing ahead alone.
THE BROTHERHOOD COMMUNITY
A private, moderated community space with channels for prayer, wins, daily walk, and brotherhood. Real men. Real honesty. Available every day, not just on call day.
MONTHLY FORMATION TOPICS
After the foundation, monthly themed teachings keep the work alive. Topics drawn from where the brotherhood is actually walking — not a fixed syllabus.
WEEKLY COMMITMENT + REPORT RHYTHM
Every week you commit publicly to what you're walking out, then report back. This is the rhythm that builds the man. Not optional — it's the structure.
DIRECT ACCESS TO LEADERSHIP
Apostle Reginald, Pastor Zaire, and alumni leaders are in the community. They lead the calls, answer questions, and walk with you — not from a stage, but from the same room.
RESOURCE LIBRARY
Past teachings, deliverance content, guided meditations, and tools you can return to whenever you need them. Yours for as long as you're in.
A COMMUNITY THAT DOESN'T END
There's no graduation date. You stay as long as you need this. Some men stay for a season. Some build their lives here. Both are right answers.
04 / WHO'S IN THE ROOM
You're not walking with strangers.
APOSTLE REGINALD ROBINSON
Father in the faith. Walked his own road of deliverance before building the road for others. Leads with the authority of experience and the tenderness of grace.
PASTOR ZAIRE WILLIS
Brother in the trenches. Co-founded BNY alongside Apostle Reginald — built from his own testimony of deliverance into a ministry that walks with other men through theirs. Refuses to leave anyone behind on the way to freedom.
Alumni who walked it — and stayed to walk with the next man.
BNY's leadership team includes alumni who've completed past cohorts of the Mentorship Intensive and now serve in leadership. They moderate the community, support the weekly calls, and bring the lived experience of men who've sat where you're sitting.
05 / IS THIS FOR YOU?
We're honest about who this is for.
The men who get the most from the Academy are the men who want what it actually is — not what they wish it were.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- ✓You're done fighting alone and ready for real brotherhood.
- ✓You want structure — weekly rhythm, daily presence, accountability you actually use.
- ✓You're willing to show up to the weekly call, even when you don't feel like it.
- ✓You want a community that's honest about the struggle and serious about the work.
- ✓You're navigating same-sex attraction and want a space that gets it.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
- —You want a Netflix-style course library to binge alone.
- —You're not ready to be honest in community.
- —You want quick fixes or shortcut formulas.
- —You're looking for a debate space about whether SSA is a sin.
- —You're not yet at the point of wanting change — just curious.
If the second column described you — that's okay. Start with the podcast or the assessment. Come back when you're ready.
06 / ANOTHER WAY IN
Two ways in. Neither comes first.
Both are real entry points. New Reality Academy is the ongoing community — a daily rhythm of discipleship and brotherhood at your own pace. The Mentorship Intensive is the deeper, concentrated work — eight weeks that ask for your full presence. You can choose either. Some men do both. The question is what this season is asking of you.
NEW REALITY ACADEMY
For the man building a daily rhythm. A discipleship community where freedom becomes a way of life. No application. No cohort. Just consistent community, teaching, and growth.
JOIN THE ACADEMY →MENTORSHIP INTENSIVE
For the man ready to do the soul work. Live weekly teaching. Daily assignments. Application required. Cohort-based. Time-bound. The deepest work BNY offers.
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