PRIVATE COACHING · APOSTLE REGINALD & PASTOR ZAIRE
For the man who needs a direct conversation. One session. One purpose. With the men who've walked the road and built the room you're trying to find.
01 / WHAT THIS IS
This is private 1-on-1 coaching — pastoral, theological, and lived. Not therapy. Not church counseling. A real conversation with one or both of the men who built BNY, for the man who needs more than a community or a course can give him in this moment.
You bring what you're walking through. We bring Scripture, lived experience, and the willingness to tell you the truth.
One session may be all you need. Or it may be the beginning of an ongoing rhythm. You'll know after the call.
02 / WHEN COACHING IS THE RIGHT DOOR
You're carrying a decision you can't talk through with anyone you know.
You've hit a wall in your walk and you need a fresh voice with real authority.
You've already done the Academy or the Intensive, and you need to go deeper on one specific thing.
You're a leader or pastor walking with someone, and you need wisdom you can't find on Google.
You're considering a major life change and you want spiritual weight in the room.
You're not in crisis — you just need someone to ask the right questions.
"If something on that list landed, this is your door. If nothing on that list landed, the community or the Intensive may serve you better right now."
03 / THREE WAYS TO BOOK
Each of us brings something different. Some questions are for one voice. Some are for both.

60 MINUTES · ONE-ON-ONE
FOUNDER · BNY
Direct apostolic conversation with the father of BNY. Best for men carrying heavier spiritual weight — generational patterns, deliverance, prophetic discernment, and questions that need an apostolic voice in the room.
$200
per session


90 MINUTES · THE DUO
APOSTOLIC FATHER + BROTHER IN THE TRENCHES
When you need apostolic weight and pastoral lived experience in the same room. Best for major decisions, deeper deliverance, marriage and family questions, and any conversation that benefits from generational range and a longer hour.
$375
per session · 90 minutes

60 MINUTES · ONE-ON-ONE
CO-FOUNDER · BNY
Direct pastoral conversation with the brother who built BNY from his own testimony. Best for men working through identity, sexuality, sexual brokenness, marriage with a past, or the daily grind of walking it out.
$125
per session
Looking for ongoing coaching? Multi-session bundles available — discuss with us on the call. We'll invoice you separately through Stripe and apply package pricing.
04 / TOPICS WE COACH ON
Coaching covers the full counsel of Scripture — with specialty in the conversations the Church often avoids.
WE COACH ON
Identity in Christ
Deliverance
The prophetic & spiritual warfare
Discipleship & spiritual formation
Manhood & fatherhood
Faith, repentance & the Gospel
OUR SPECIALTY
Same-sex attraction in the Church
Marriage with a past
Pastoring the silent struggler
Sexual brokenness & deliverance
05 / HOW IT WORKS
01
Choose Pastor Zaire, Apostle Reginald, or both of us — based on what your moment is asking for.
02
Pick your time. Pay through Stripe. You'll receive immediate confirmation and a calendar invite.
03
Join the Google Meet link in your calendar invite. Bring what you're walking through. We'll meet you there.
04
Some men book once. Some build an ongoing rhythm. You'll know what's right after the first session.
06 / WHAT TO EXPECT
CANCELLATION
Non-refundable
Sessions are non-refundable. You may reschedule once with at least 24 hours notice. No refunds for cancellations within 24 hours.
FORMAT
Video Call · Anywhere
All sessions are conducted virtually via Google Meet. You'll receive the link in your calendar invite after booking.
CONFIDENTIALITY
Held in trust
Everything you share with us is held in pastoral confidentiality. We don't record sessions, share what's said, or use anything you bring without your express permission.
WHAT THIS IS NOT
Not therapy
Coaching is not licensed therapy or mental health counseling. If you're in crisis or need clinical support, we'll always recommend you also work with a qualified professional alongside this.
07 / IS THIS THE RIGHT DOOR?
Coaching is for the specific moment that needs a direct conversation. If you're looking for ongoing community or structured discipleship, two other doors may serve you better — and they're more affordable on a monthly basis.
ONGOING COMMUNITY
$97/month · Open to all
A monthly community with weekly live calls, a structured 10-week foundation, and the brotherhood of men walking the same road. Best for building a daily rhythm.
DEEP & FOCUSED
$599 · 8 Weeks · 25 Men
For the man ready to do concentrated soul work alongside other men. Live weekly teaching, daily assignments, application required. The deepest BNY offers.
READY FOR THE CONVERSATION?
One hour with the men who built this can change the next year of your walk. The booking pages are live. Pick your door.